tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20381399.post3683124590631669302..comments2023-12-31T01:32:28.935-06:00Comments on At A Hen's Pace: Thoughts on Earthly PerfectionAt A Hen's Pacehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02244490539003130874noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20381399.post-24086347595690255522008-04-28T18:45:00.000-05:002008-04-28T18:45:00.000-05:00Time has a way of shifting all kinds of illusions....Time has a way of shifting all kinds of illusions. Not so long ago(so it seems) my children inquired as to the possibility that I may have obsessive compulsive behaviors. This was just because I insisted they keep their rooms neat and tidy and that we kept the place reasonably disease free. It appeared I was obsessive as I was the only one on board with this theory and hence I did most of the cleaning (re - doing their effort, usually). It was a lose - lose situation. So, I changed tactics and went with the - 'If you can't beat them , join them'. Now they ask if I have no pride at all? Perfection? Doesn't work for me. I tried to be perfect in my obsessions (way to exhausting) and now I realize that too be a perfect slob is way too depressing. Time to get that overdue spring clean underway (It's beginning of Winter here).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20381399.post-13014440263134414192008-04-28T15:29:00.000-05:002008-04-28T15:29:00.000-05:00I agree, attempting perfection is very dangerous. ...I agree, attempting perfection is very dangerous. I do believe God is a God of order and that we should continue to strive for order, in all areas. I'm sure my husband gets tired of me saying that...it's been a frequent topic of our conversations, lately!! But a few years ago, I started praying that God help me get more organized in all the tasks of "keeping the house" and know that he is helping me in that area, even if it is little by little. I say that after passing by my "MOUND" on my desk to check my email! Just another way of knowing that I can do nothing apart from HIM or HIS strength.Mrs. Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11855887631441147624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20381399.post-77502650025157100792008-04-28T15:26:00.000-05:002008-04-28T15:26:00.000-05:00Becoming me--"...a dangerous treacherous illusion"...Becoming me--<BR/><BR/>"...a dangerous treacherous illusion"--exactly. I'm kind of saying that, if I ever thought this was what I wanted, I'm finding that it's not worth the price! But there's part two coming....<BR/><BR/>Summer--<BR/><BR/>You're on the right track by realizing, as you said, that the spills, the dirt, the crumbs, the fingerprints ARE all inevitable. That's the first step to calmness. :) Thanks for telling me that you see that in me--I'm not always calm on the inside, I'm afraid.<BR/><BR/>--JeanneAt A Hen's Pacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02244490539003130874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20381399.post-29673823417053567102008-04-28T14:18:00.000-05:002008-04-28T14:18:00.000-05:00Are you pursuing perfection to try to sell your ho...Are you pursuing perfection to try to sell your house or is it the way now you want to live? I know first hand that the road to perfection is just a dangerous treacherous illusion.Mrs.Naz@BecomingMehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05425021902893463197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20381399.post-46929891503839812562008-04-28T09:29:00.000-05:002008-04-28T09:29:00.000-05:00Jeanne, welcome to the way I live everyday! And y...Jeanne, welcome to the way I live everyday! And yes, it's so nice to see a clean house --- BUT I can only enjoy it for a couple of minutes because spills are inevitable and dirt is inevitable and living in my house . . . well, it's inevitable. And the worrying . . . it's enough to drive a woman crazy. I've really had to come to terms with myself lately on some of these issues. In fact, I've always admired your ability to juggle it all and not worry. You've always seemed so calm when I'm always so scattered. <BR/><BR/>Not sure what all of this comment is really supposed to mean -- it was just was I was feeling as I was reading your post.<BR/><BR/>You're doing great!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com